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		<title>91 Fundamental habits of highly motivated small business owners</title>
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<div>Not everything works for everybody. Although there may be common characteristics among successful small business owners, not every business owner approaches business the same way. Successful small business owners are masters at filtering knowledge and implementing only what works best for them. They create and discover fundamental habits that enable them to mover further faster.</div>
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Over 100 small business owners shared what core habits they have put into practice to sustain motivation and maintain success. Below are 91 fundamental habits of highly motivated small business owners. The best way to eliminate a bad habit is to replace it with a good one. Seek out those that suit your business needs, skills and capacity. Implement them, work at them and make them your own. Your business needs to be on your terms.</div>
<p>1. Transparency. P. Cheung, <a href="http://www.my-wedding-concierge.com/">www.my-wedding-concierge.com</a></p>
<p>2. Work when the inspiration strikes you. H. Claus, <a href="http://www.365daysofstyle.com/">www.365daysofstyle.com</a></p>
<p>3. Diversify projects to offset monotony. S. Horowitz, <a href="http://www.principledprofit.com/">www.principledprofit.com</a></p>
<p>4. Respond to all inbound inquiries from clients and colleagues immediately. N. Marshad, <a href="http://www.marshad.com/">www.marshad.com</a></p>
<p>5. Let others know what you are doing, achieving and pursuing. P. Draper, <a href="http://www.mentalmysteries.com/">www.mentalmysteries.com</a></p>
<p>6. Be a source of information. S. Bloom, <a href="http://www.bloomreg.com/">www.bloomreg.com</a></p>
<p>7. Set untouchable, personal time away from business. K. Sherkey,<a href="http://blakely.squarespace.com/articles/2010/7/13/www.streamline6.com"> www.streamline6.com</a></p>
<p>8. Be committed to the community you serve. J. Flynn, <a href="http://www.thelegalcheckup.com/">www.thelegalcheckup.com</a></p>
<p>9. Work in your strengths. Do what you do best. D. Hensch,<a href="http://blakely.squarespace.com/articles/2010/7/13/www.drh-group.com"> www.drh-group.com</a></p>
<p>10. Live below your means. Use profits to grow your business. P. Solomon, <a href="http://www.pablosolomon.com/">www.pablosolomon.com</a></p>
<p>11. Keep up with technology. Emerging technology allows small business to compete on all levels and if adopted and utilized frees an amazing amount of time. B. Attig,<a href="http://blakely.squarespace.com/articles/2010/7/13/www.myretailcareer.net"> www.myretailcareer.net</a></p>
<p>12. Never stop marketing. No marketing = No sales. C. Ruenheck  <a href="http://www.itsyourcall.com/">www.itsyourcall.com</a></p>
<p>13. Never start the day without a plan. D. Furtwengler, <a href="http://www.furtwengler.com/">www.furtwengler.com</a></p>
<p>14. Focus on results. Know what you are doing, how and why you are doing it. B. Flaxington, <a href="http://www.retaildoc.com/">www.the-collaborative.com</a></p>
<p>15. Be willing to turn down business that does not pay you what you are worth. B. Phibbs, <a href="http://www.retaildoc.com/">www.retaildoc.com</a></p>
<p>16. Discipline because there&#8217;s no &#8220;boss man&#8221; threatening to fire you. S. Fischer, <a href="http://www.fischer-law.com/">www.fischer-law.com</a></p>
<p>17. Consistently meet and connect with new people and have a follow-up system. B. Basilico,<a href="http://blakely.squarespace.com/articles/2010/7/13/www.b2b-im.com"> www.b2b-im.com</a></p>
<p>18. Stay in contact with influencers, network and stay highly visible. L. Singer, <a href="http://www.hsdominion.com/">www.hsdominion.com</a></p>
<p>19. Monitor your progress. D. Helbig, <a href="http://www.seizethisdaycoaching.com/">www.seizethisdaycoaching.com</a></p>
<p>20. Become an avid &#8220;inspirational seeker&#8221; &#8211; read inspirational quotes. R. Guerrero, <a href="http://www.ficklets.com/">www.ficklets.com</a></p>
<p>21. Consistency. Whether it is a blog post, a contest giveaway, or product updates on the website, it is very important in my business that it is done at the same period of time each and every week. M. Podlesny, <a href="http://www.averagepersongardening.com/">www.averagepersongardening.com</a></p>
<p>22. Treat your customer with respect and always make it about them. C. Sisson Hensley, <a href="http://www.hopsports.com/">www.hopsports.com</a></p>
<p>23. Focus, focus, focus on identified target market, ideal client and revenue generating activities.  P. Mussieux, <a href="http://www.confidenceandcourage.com/">www.confidenceandcourage.com</a></p>
<p>24. Have a written plan. L. Tener, <a href="http://www.lisatener.com/">www.lisatener.com</a></p>
<p>25. Always be optimistic &#8211; yet tempered with reality. M. Pisik, <a href="http://www.breckwell.com/">www.breckwell.com</a></p>
<p>26. Live your top five values. Know your values intimately and be fueled by them. J. Hornickel, <a href="http://www.boldnewdirections.com/">www.boldnewdirections.com</a></p>
<p>27. Listen at meetings, events, one-on-one, over the phone; any time you interact with another human being and you are in some way part of the conversation; listen to what is being said. D. Menzies, <a href="http://www.menziesconsulting.com/">www.menziesconsulting.com</a></p>
<p>28. Sleep. Having enough sleep keeps your mind fresh and your mood positive. J. Johnson, <a href="http://www.allmomsgotoheaven.com/">www.allmomsgotoheaven.com</a></p>
<p>29. Learn to manage your schedule. D. Moseley-Williams, <a href="http://www.moseleywilliams.com/">www.moseleywilliams.com</a></p>
<p>30. Frequently ask yourself, “What will be my legacy?” Be legacy-driven, not only hitting the mark, but also leaving a mark. V. Ashford, <a href="http://www.fearlessleading.com/">www.fearlessleading.com</a></p>
<p>31. Add value above and beyond your peers and competitors. D. Dalka, <a href="http://www.daviddalka.com/">www.daviddalka.com</a></p>
<p>32. Don&#8217;t think you can&#8217;t; assume you can. J. Fender, <a href="http://www.accessmainstreet.com/">www.accessmainstreet.com</a></p>
<p>33. Have integrity. When you operate from a fundamental position centered on integrity you have the ability to gain the trust and respect of your clients. G. DeRosa, <a href="http://www.cgmaterials.com/">www.cgmaterials.com</a></p>
<p>34. Maintain balance &#8212; Without balance, you may lose sight of the really important reasons why your vision becomes your dream (i.e. family, ethics, community service, etc.) J. Patterson,<a href="http://blakely.squarespace.com/articles/2010/7/13/www.e-LYNXX.com"> www.e-LYNXX.com</a></p>
<p>35. Do your most important work first every day. T. Tervooren, <a href="http://www.tylertervooren.com/">www.tylertervooren.com</a></p>
<p>36. Show keen detail to servicing your clients and their needs. Regard yourself as an extension of their business. E. Khalil, <a href="http://www.abelpromos.com/">www.abelpromos.com</a></p>
<p>37. Skill development. You need to be the best at what you do. Constant education in your field is a must. M. Meikle, <a href="http://www.mikemeikle.wordpress.com/">www.mikemeikle.wordpress.com</a></p>
<p>38. Regular analysis of the numbers. On a monthly basis, look at the profit and loss statement and balance sheet of your business. H. Schauffler, <a href="http://www.marketingwithhenri.com/">www.marketingwithhenri.com</a></p>
<p>39. Measurable goal setting. You have to know what you want to achieve to be able to achieve it. P. Geisheker, <a href="http://www.geisheker.com/">www.geisheker.com</a></p>
<p>40. Continuously ask yourself, “What&#8217;s the best use of my time right now.” B. Maher, <a href="http://www.barrymaher.com/">www.barrymaher.com</a></p>
<p>41. Frame it in the positive because realizing the benefits in every situation is the foundation for growth. G. Shiffrar, <a href="http://www.shiffrar.com/">www.shiffrar.com</a></p>
<p>42. “Work” at home &#8211; maintain a daily schedule of going to your office and closing the door each morning at a set time. S. Lamb,<a href="http://blakely.squarespace.com/articles/2010/7/13/www.sandralamb.com"> www.sandralamb.com</a></p>
<p>43. Respond to all customer feedback (positive and negative) immediately upon receipt. K. Pine, <a href="http://www.worldwiseewelry.com/">www.worldwiseewelry.com</a></p>
<p>44. Think like an innovator and trend-setter. J. Scardina Becker,<a href="http://blakely.squarespace.com/articles/2010/7/13/www.eventsofdistinction.com"> www.eventsofdistinction.com</a></p>
<p>45. Learn to delegate. S. Olivarria, <a href="http://www.biggerthanyourblock.com/">www.biggerthanyourblock.com</a></p>
<p>46. Ask for quality referrals, quality referrals, quality referrals. M. Henker, <a href="http://www.thehenkergroup.com/">www.thehenkergroup.com</a></p>
<p>47. Keep improving your product or service. A. Sinha, <a href="http://www.accessconsultinginc.com/">www.accessconsultinginc.com</a></p>
<p>48. When you think you have worked hard enough, work harder. The business is your baby and must come first. L. Levine, <a href="http://www.profiledproducts.com/">www.profiledproducts.com</a></p>
<p>49. Eat right, sleep and exercise. It doesn&#8217;t matter how smart you are or how great your plan or product is, if you don&#8217;t take care of yourself, you will burn out quickly. T. Tafur <a href="http://www.thomasinatafur.com/">www.thomasinatafur.com</a></p>
<p>50. Take time to rejuvenate. A. Pelliccio, <a href="http://www.thehappygardener.info/">www.thehappygardener.info</a></p>
<p>51. Keep in touch with past clients as they are great referral sources and will come to you when they need your service again in the future. M. Ferletic,<a href="http://blakely.squarespace.com/articles/2010/7/13/www.enterey.com"> www.enterey.com</a></p>
<p>52. Under promise and over deliver. J. Gallacher,<a href="http://blakely.squarespace.com/articles/2010/7/13/www.santacruzrehearsalstudios.com"> www.santacruzrehearsalstudios.com</a></p>
<p>53. Hire the professionals to do what you can&#8217;t excel at so you can use your time to do what you do best that generates income. Let them do the heavy lifting because they have the contacts and know-how. D. LeVie, Jr., <a href="http://www.kingscrownpublishing.com/">www.kingscrownpublishing.com</a></p>
<p>54. Good writing and clear communication. Aim to write with clarity, correct grammar and punctuation; and whenever possible, with style. C. Sparks,<a href="http://blakely.squarespace.com/articles/2010/7/13/www.holotropic.com"> www.holotropic.com</a></p>
<p>55. Network and leverage the resources of others with a win-win mindset. Ethically exploit the resources of other businesses, and share profits with them.  They understand joint ventures, strategic alliances and endorsed marketing deals. R. Brauer, <a href="http://www.prophet-marketing.com/">www.prophet-marketing.com</a></p>
<p>56. Be outrageous.  Successful entrepreneurs are rarely run of the mill, boring or average. They approach business in a way so they ethically stand out in the minds of the market and the media. R. Brauer, <a href="http://www.prophet-marketing.com/">www.prophet-marketing.com</a></p>
<p>57. Have a support system. Use the help of others to give you advice, provide a sounding board, and offer encouragement. Get into the habit of meeting regularly. J. Mounce, <a href="http://www.coacheffect.com/">www.coacheffect.com</a></p>
<p>58. Bundle your services and products.  Make it easy for your customer to buy more from you by packaging complementary products. J. Crisara, <a href="http://www.contractorselling.com/">www.contractorselling.com</a></p>
<p>59. Make sure you&#8217;re getting the best credit terms and discounts from suppliers. T. Anastasi, <a href="http://www.tomanastasi.com/">www.tomanastasi.com</a></p>
<p>60. Always stay caught up on your bookkeeping, bills and deliveries. J. Nielsen, <a href="http://www.myntstyle.com/">www.myntstyle.com</a></p>
<p>61. Have a routine. Successful entrepreneurs create a routine of work that is consistent and fits with their lifestyle. D. Langton, <a href="http://www.langtoncherubino.com/">www.langtoncherubino.com</a></p>
<p>62. Keep it simple. Write out business goals on one page. If you can&#8217;t communicate it to an employee or a business partner in one page, it&#8217;s too detailed &#8211; and no one will understand it. B. Leone,<a href="http://blakely.squarespace.com/articles/2010/7/13/www.mrcopy.com"> www.mrcopy.com</a></p>
<p>63. Surround yourself with highly motivated and talented people. B. Powell,<a href="http://blakely.squarespace.com/articles/2010/7/13/www.yardshare.com"> www.yardshare.com</a></p>
<p>64. Put hard deadlines on a calendar, and to create a timeline of events that your customers, suppliers and prospects can hold you to. C. Goodwin, <a href="http://www.talkiscake.com/">www.talkiscake.com</a></p>
<p>65. Don&#8217;t be afraid to fire the poor performers. C. Tuculescu, <a href="http://www.cosnet.com/">www.cosnet.com</a></p>
<p>66. Document procedures and processes, so that you don’t have to spend time training multiple people on the same thing. R. Bodon, <a href="http://www.onesmallstep.com/">www.onesmallstep.com</a></p>
<p>67. Make appointments with yourself. Block out time on your calendar for projects and don&#8217;t let anything move into that space; at least not without a conscious decision on prioritization. I. Miller, <a href="http://www.mentormiller.com/">www.MentorMiller.com</a></p>
<p>68. Trust your gut. It feels things your brain does not. L. Taylor, <a href="http://www.nexgendigital.com/">www.nexgendigital.com</a></p>
<p>69. Know when to kill the idea. Abandon what doesn&#8217;t work or no longer works even if it once did. Don’t hang on to practices or business concepts because you are emotionally attached. C. Stewart, <a href="http://www.remarxmedia.com/">www.remarxmedia.com</a></p>
<p>70. Be a businessperson who wants to succeed. Don’t be a slave to your businesses; don’t work 20-hour days unless you&#8217;re under a tight deadline. Time isn&#8217;t always money, except when it is. K. Bretcher, <a href="http://www.brazenbutton.com/">www.brazenbutton.com</a></p>
<p>71. Persistence, persistence, persistence. The ability to face the myriad of obstacles that entrepreneurs will encounter, and continue to push forward, is the most critical (not the only) factor in success. G. Karwoski, <a href="http://www.creativepr.com/">www.creativepr.com</a></p>
<p>72. Ask for referrals and references regularly. The best leverage into new and varied business opportunities lies within the business you have done successfully already. M. Harris, <a href="http://www.aperturecapital.com/">www.aperturecapital.com</a></p>
<p>73. Look at everything from your clients’ perspective (it will help marketing). L. Aharoni, <a href="http://www.aqtext.com/">www.aqtext.com</a></p>
<p>74. Believe in your product or service. If you truly believe in what you do or sell and can convey that belief from the heart, others will too. Dr. R. Amicay, <a href="http://www.amicay.com/">www.amicay.com</a></p>
<p>75. Listen to customers and adapt to changing needs and requirements. S. Donahue, <a href="http://www.skyya.com/">www.skyya.com</a></p>
<p>76. Be Grateful. Always thank your customers, clients and even those who just act interested. Don&#8217;t try to sell anything when showing gratitude. K. Cahill, <a href="http://www.kriscahill.com/">www.kriscahill.com</a></p>
<p>77. Collect e-mail addresses constantly and consensually. S. Dunseath, <a href="http://www.renoenvy.com/">www.renoenvy.com</a></p>
<p>78. Keep the passion alive. Find things to stimulate you and challenge you so that you keep the passion for your profession alive. M. Verdin, <a href="http://www.verdinmarketing.com/">www.verdinmarketing.com</a></p>
<p>79. Hustle. Constantly be on the lookout for story angles and places to tell your story (i.e. online, at events, to the press …anywhere).  N. Beckord, <a href="http://www.venturearchetypes.com/">www.venturearchetypes.com</a></p>
<p>80. Establish a vision that you review daily and use as a touchstone to make fundamental decisions. G. Butler, <a href="http://www.butlerfitzgerald.com/">www.butlerfitzgerald.com</a></p>
<p>81. Don&#8217;t be afraid to say, “I don&#8217;t know,” and ask for help from seasoned council. T. Merrick, <a href="http://www.project7.com/">www.project7.com</a></p>
<p>82. Always keep an open mind (to new ideas, products, operational methods, etc.) V. Troyer, <a href="http://www.architecturalmailboxes.com/">www.architecturalmailboxes.com</a></p>
<p>83. Have a willingness to learn from harsh feedback and mistakes made. E. Stutz, <a href="http://www.smoothsale.net/">www.smoothsale.net</a></p>
<p>84. Do everything for yourself at least once. You gain valuable experience doing things for yourself. Afterwards, you can decide what is not core to your business success and outsource it. Dr. Z. Zguris, <a href="http://www.limetreecove.com/">www.limetreecove.com</a></p>
<p>85. Show up. T. Scanlon, <a href="http://www.borgidacpas.com/">www.borgidacpas.com</a></p>
<p>86. Be consistent with your company&#8217;s image or else it will confuse and reduce your customer base. T. Hartl, <a href="http://www.sellingsunshinebook.com/">www.sellingsunshinebook.com</a></p>
<p>87. Start with the easy stuff. It frees you up to focus on the tough problems by limiting distractions caused by other tasks. B. Law, <a href="http://www.primedesignsolutions.com/">www.primedesignsolutions.com</a></p>
<p>88. Follow up on every opportunity until you have an answer either way, meaning the customer has bought something, or ultimately says &#8220;no&#8221;. A. Sittig-Rolf, <a href="http://www.sittiginc.com/">www.sittiginc.com</a></p>
<p>89. Block time for strategic planning and set time to check in on the business plan. K. Harad, <a href="http://www.newparentfinances.com/">www.newparentfinances.com</a></p>
<p>90. Pay bills and paychecks on time. Never being late on a bill is another big professional plus. Fast payments will foster loyalty with your employees and with anyone contracted for a project. C. Schexnyder, <a href="http://www.ohbabyfitness.com/">www.ohbabyfitness.com</a></p>
<p>91. Be the brand. You are your business. Everything you do reflects your brand. Protect it at all times. A.M. Blakeley, <a href="http://www.simplicitymastered.com/">www.simplicitymastered.com </a></p>
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A.Michelle Blakeley is in the listening business. As a Micro Business Therapist, she provides an open-minded and non-judgmental ear to listen to the real issues and concerns that start-up, emerging and women entrepreneurs experience and negotiate solutions through comprehensive discussions and practical micro business plans. She is featured in <a href="http://www.forbes.com/2009/11/24/twitter-forbeswoman-views-forbes-woman-entrepreneurs-natalie-macneil.html">Forbes.com</a> and the Financial Post as one of 30 Women Entrepreneurs to Follow on Twitter, contributor for the <a href="http://www.examiner.com/x-49969-SF-Small-Business-Examiner">San Francisco Examiner</a> and Fearless Woman Magazine; the host of <a href="http://www.blogtalkradio.com/amichelleblakeley">Simple Truths for Women Entrepreneurs</a> on BlogTalkRadio.com and author of the <a href="http://simplicitymastered.squarespace.com/">NEW e-book</a>: “Get it Right and Move Along… a collection of practical tips, tools and techniques for small business owners.”</div>
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		<description><![CDATA[Abundance Check Ritual

This ritual has been handed down through so many people that its origin has become unknown. I received this from my One Command group and thought some of you might enjoy giving it a try.  It can&#8217;t hurt, right?
What are Abundance Checks?
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<div>This ritual has been handed down through so many people that its origin has become unknown. I received this from my One Command group and thought some of you might enjoy giving it a try.  It can&#8217;t hurt, right?</div>
<div>What are <strong>Abundance Checks</strong>?<br />
Abundance checks are a tool we can use to <strong>create more abundance</strong> in our lives. They are <strong>written within 24 hours after a New Moon</strong>.</div>
<div>Surprisingly, <strong>you really don&#8217;t even need to believe</strong> that the check will work when you write it. You will however be amazed at the results, as you will see increased abundance in your life, in some life area. It is <strong>not always financial, but certainly in an area that you need</strong>.  There is a traditional manner, which has been handed down, that must be followed. If you do not have a checking account you can draw a check on a piece of paper and fill it out the same way &#8211; the results will be the same, more abundance for you.</div>
<div><strong>Here&#8217;s how:</strong><br />
1.  Within 24 hours after a New Moon, take a check from your check book. Where it says &#8220;Pay to,&#8221; write your name.<br />
2.  In the little box on the same line where you would fill in a dollar amount write &#8220;Paid in full.&#8221;<br />
3.  On the line underneath your name, where you would write out a dollar amount, write &#8220;Paid in full.&#8221; [I find it works better if you don't add the squiggly line.]<br />
4.  Sign the check: &#8220;The Law of Abundance&#8221;</div>
<div>Do not put a date on the check. Do not write a specific dollar amount in the check. Put it in a safe place and forget about it. The Universe will take it from there.</div>
<div>Many people are skeptical about trying this until they do it. After the first time they realize the power of these checks and do them routinely every month! Try it yourself and see!  <strong>If you enjoy this ritual, do it for the next three New Moons and see what happens.</strong></div>
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		<title>Favorite Summertime Memory</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Jun 2010 00:11:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michele</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have lots of great memories from summer&#8217;s past.  My most recent is one that might surprise others.  It involves the great storms of the summer.  Sitting here in the basement and hearing the hail hit the house and running upstairs with my daughter to watch the rain and wind and hail as it flails [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.lodestoneblog.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/hail.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-702" title="hail" src="http://www.lodestoneblog.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/hail-300x225.jpg" alt="hail" width="300" height="225" /></a>I have lots of great memories from summer&#8217;s past.  My most recent is one that might surprise others.  It involves the great storms of the summer.  Sitting here in the basement and hearing the hail hit the house and running upstairs with my daughter to watch the rain and wind and hail as it flails around outside.  We are safe inside, enjoying each other&#8217;s company, in awe of the wonders of nature.   The hail as large as big marbles filling the driveway and yard, a pile of them building in the corner of the deck.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s a bummer that the hail has damaged the house, we now have holes in the siding again for the third time in about 4 years.  I have mixed emotions as I think about the insurance companies who will now have to pay out many claims for damage and the companies who&#8217;s livelihood depends, in part, on storms like these for business.  I don&#8217;t like having to go through the process of filing a claim and filling out the paperwork involved but it&#8217;s just a fact of life we have to deal with.</p>
<p>I think about how much this is like my business.  I love having the opportunity to create and I love the process that involves.  I don&#8217;t love all the paperwork required to make it all happen.  All that left brain stuff that makes my head spin.  But it&#8217;s necessary.  I understand how important it is because, without it, great things cannot happen.  My good friend, <a href="http://modernincon.com" target="_blank">Rebecca Metz</a>, has something coming soon that I can&#8217;t wait to share with you.  Something that will inspire you beyond belief and will show you truly why all that stuff we don&#8217;t love to do is so important.</p>
<p>Today, take a step moving forward.  Do something you don&#8217;t love to do and get it done OR, even better, find someone else to do it for you and outsource or delegate!  Wishing you a life full of many successes (and just a little hail).</p>
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		<title>Are You as Brandable as Kefir?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Jun 2010 21:20:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michele</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[After 7 years in Russia, I take kefir for granted. You may not know what it is, but when I say it&#8217;s an Eastern European dairy product that &#8211; I&#8217;m usually interrupted by someone:
&#8220;Oh, is that the yogurt drink that helps you live to 100?&#8221;
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>After 7 years in Russia, I take kefir for granted. You may not know what it is, but when I say it&#8217;s an Eastern European dairy product that &#8211; I&#8217;m usually interrupted by someone:</p>
<p>&#8220;Oh, is that the yogurt drink that helps you live to 100?&#8221;</p>
<p>Yep, that&#8217;s pretty much the definition.  Kefir is a cousin of yogurt and, while I couldn&#8217;t drink the real stuff in Russia (too sour and awful-tasting), I do love the fruity kind they sell at Whole Foods.</p>
<p>When I bought some recently at Kroger, the checkout lady asked, &#8220;Is that the stuff that you drink and live to 100?&#8221;</p>
<p>Literally repeated the exact same words as before.  The checkout lady!</p>
<p>I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;re wondering, &#8220;What the heck does this have to with branding, or marketing or anything except living to 100?&#8221;</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll tell you: You want your brand to be like kefir.</p>
<p>Even though kefir is a commodity, we can use the way it&#8217;s described as a lesson for our own brands.</p>
<p>* Is your message clear?  It should be understood immediately &#8211; without diagrams, stories, explanations or Power Points.  &#8220;Live to 100?  I want that!&#8221;</p>
<p>* Is it compelling enough to get attention?  Seems like the whole &#8220;live to 100&#8243; thing has caught on.  Where did that come from anyway?</p>
<p>* Is your message benefit-oriented?   Kefir has such a big benefit (live to 100) that people forget the features &#8211; runny yogurt, sour flavor, probiotics&#8230;.</p>
<p>* Is your message concise?  We may bemoan the sound-bite attention span, but they sure are easy to learn and repeat. Our new barbeque grill has us chuckling &#8220;Stop, Drop and Roll&#8221; all the time now.  Concise for a reason, right?</p>
<p>* Is it consistent?  You may find it hard to believe that the same words are used to describe kefir every time someone mentions it.  But, interestingly, when my clients field customer surveys, they find the same words being used to describe them over and over!  When you find out what they are, you can use those words to describe your brand to prospects.  If you don&#8217;t like them, define your brand better and teach new ones.</p>
<p>Kefir&#8217;s reputation has become a kind of meme or ideavirus, passed through word-of-mouth almost word-for-word.</p>
<p>We business owners would love to have a message that catchy!<br />
How to do that?</p>
<p>1.    Name the biggest benefit you deliver.  It&#8217;s doesn&#8217;t have to be immortality. My car insurance guy once walked from his office to a little fender-bender I had.  I tell that to everyone who asks me about him.  Yours may be about increasing revenues or self-esteem, helping people get the job they want or express their anger safely.</p>
<p>2.    Craft it into a concise sound-bite.  This is always harder if you don&#8217;t know the full message, so think first about whom you help, what problems you solve and the unique results you deliver.  Then you can whittle it down to a nugget like &#8220;the pain-free massage therapist.&#8221; I always say my favorite photographer takes the most beautiful photos that still look like you.</p>
<p>3.    Repeat it exactly, without variation.  Once you get the language you want, stay consistent.  Too often we get bored with a message we&#8217;ve heard repeatedly. But your prospects have not learned it yet &#8211; and won&#8217;t if you keep changing it!</p>
<p>I had a client whose brand message changed every meeting.  I realized he liked evolving, creating and changing it.  This is like putting a plant in your garden, then digging it up and moving it every day.  It may be alive, but it will never take root and flourish.</p>
<p>© 2010 Enlightened Marketing</p>
<p>&#8220;By Samantha Hartley of Enlightened Marketing. For effective marketing strategies that align with your values visit http://www.enlightenedmarketing.com/.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>Everything I Need to Know I Learned from a Squirrel</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jun 2010 04:13:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michele</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Squirrels are not liked by many but truly deserve our admiration, in my opinion.  They are destructive little creatures because, once they set their mind to something, they don&#8217;t quit until they achieve it.  Is this a bad thing?  I guess it depends on who&#8217;s eyes you are looking through.  I, for one, admire them [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.lodestoneblog.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/100_04951.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-687" title="100_0495" src="http://www.lodestoneblog.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/100_04951-225x300.jpg" alt="Squirrel" width="225" height="300" /></a>Squirrels are not liked by many but truly deserve our admiration, in my opinion.  They are destructive little creatures because, once they set their mind to something, they don&#8217;t quit until they achieve it.  Is this a bad thing?  I guess it depends on who&#8217;s eyes you are looking through.  I, for one, admire them for all they are able to teach us.</p>
<p>Did you know they can live almost anywhere.  Who wouldn&#8217;t want a life where they can do whatever they want, whenever they want, wherever they want??  I know I&#8217;m doing my best to create a business that travels with me so I can enjoy my life in climates and conditions that I like best.  I can&#8217;t wait to take full advantage of that!  Squirrels tend to avoid high polar regions and the driest of deserts &#8211; can you blame them?  The land must support them.  They need to be able to find food and shelter.  We also need to have access to things that support us.  Family, friends, nourishment, etc.</p>
<p>Squirrels have excellent vision.  This is important since they always need to be on the lookout for food and for predators.   Now, I don&#8217;t spend a lot of time looking out for the same type of predator they look for (I seriously doubt a hawk or eagle is going to be able to swoop down and take me away), I do spend time looking for other types&#8230;mostly time wasters.  These little guys are so destructive to our success in life.  Always ask yourself, if what you are doing will get you closer to your goals.  If not, do you really want to spend your time that way?</p>
<p>Squirrels collect what they need and plan ahead for leaner times.  What a brilliant concept and yet so difficult for many of us.  Being self-employed, this is my biggest struggle &#8211; planning ahead while building a business to support my family.  Squirrels seem to understand this concept well and are always looking for food, even if they have plenty.</p>
<p>Squirrels are very hardworking, diligent and prudent.  They never, ever give up.  They make calculated decisions.  Have you ever watched a squirrel on a mission?  They try something and, if it doesn&#8217;t work, they try something else.  They seem to sit and think it through before deciding what route to take next.  It takes some work, even when we are in the flow, to move forward in life.  We must be diligent and not lose site of our goals.  We must make wise choices that are well thought out.  And, hopefully, it still feels fun most of the time (if not all of the time) for you.   Life doesn&#8217;t have to be painful.  Look at the squirrel.   Climbing and playing and chattering with others.  What a great life!</p>
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		<title>New Moon, June 12th 11:15</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jun 2010 18:23:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michele</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Abundance Check Ritual

This ritual has been handed down through so many people that its origin has become unknown. I received this from my One Command group and thought some of you might enjoy giving it a try.  It can&#8217;t hurt, right?
What are Abundance Checks?
Abundance checks are a tool we can use to create more abundance [...]]]></description>
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<div>This ritual has been handed down through so many people that its origin has become unknown. I received this from my One Command group and thought some of you might enjoy giving it a try.  It can&#8217;t hurt, right?</div>
<div>What are <strong>Abundance Checks</strong>?<br />
Abundance checks are a tool we can use to <strong>create more abundance</strong> in our lives. They are <strong>written within 24 hours after a New Moon</strong>.</div>
<div>Surprisingly, <strong>you really don&#8217;t even need to believe</strong> that the check will work when you write it. You will however be amazed at the results, as you will see increased abundance in your life, in some life area. It is <strong>not always financial, but certainly in an area that you need</strong>.  There is a traditional manner, which has been handed down, that must be followed. If you do not have a checking account you can draw a check on a piece of paper and fill it out the same way &#8211; the results will be the same, more abundance for you.</div>
<div><strong>Here&#8217;s how:</strong><br />
1.  Within 24 hours after a New Moon, take a check from your check book. Where it says &#8220;Pay to,&#8221; write your name.<br />
2.  In the little box on the same line where you would fill in a dollar amount write &#8220;Paid in full.&#8221;<br />
3.  On the line underneath your name, where you would write out a dollar amount, write &#8220;Paid in full.&#8221; [I find it works better if you don't add the squiggly line.]<br />
4.  Sign the check: &#8220;The Law of Abundance&#8221;</div>
<div>Do not put a date on the check. Do not write a specific dollar amount in the check. Put it in a safe place and forget about it. The Universe will take it from there.</div>
<div>Many people are skeptical about trying this until they do it. After the first time they realize the power of these checks and do them routinely every month! Try it yourself and see!  <strong>If you enjoy this ritual, do it for the next three New Moons and see what happens.</strong></div>
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		<title>An Enlightened View of Competition</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 May 2010 20:13:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michele</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I found this article in an ezine I get and thought you might enjoy it:
An Enlightened View of Competition
 
Many business owners regard competitors with resentment, fear, envy and disdain. It&#8217;s like every time we look at them, we&#8217;re reminded of how they&#8217;re taking money out of our pockets.
As you know, one of my main [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I found this article in an ezine I get and thought you might enjoy it:</p>
<div><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: large;"><span style="color: #ff9900;"><span style="font-family: Georgia;">An Enlightened View of Competition</span></span></span></div>
<div><span style="font-family: Verdana;"> </span></div>
<div><span style="font-family: Verdana;"><strong>Many business owners regard competitors with resentment, fear, envy and disdain.</strong> It&#8217;s like every time we look at them, we&#8217;re reminded of how they&#8217;re taking money out of our pockets.<img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2792/4356113496_8a27513439_m.jpg" alt="" width="240" height="240" align="right" /></p>
<p>As you know, one of my main values here at Enlightened Marketing is <strong>abundance &#8211; the belief  that there is plenty for everyone. </strong>Especially when we each do exactly what we&#8217;re supposed to be doing: delivering value from the center of our gifts.<br />
<strong><br />
Another term for the center of your gifts is your &#8220;brand.&#8221; </strong> Effective brand messages tell the world who your products and services are for, and why you&#8217;re the best choice for them.</p>
<p>Repeat: why you&#8217;re the best CHOICE.</p>
<p>That means the person considering your brand is doing so relative to the other options available.  Some people call those options competitors, and I do too sometimes.</p>
<p>But most of the time, <strong>I like to call them Alternatives.</strong></p>
<p>Regarding those other options as competitors evokes scarcity mentality in me.  It makes me feel they&#8217;re out to get me &#8230; that there can only be one winner &#8230; that there&#8217;s not enough for us all and I better get my share!</p>
<p><strong>However, when I call my competitors Alternatives, I feel expanded again. </strong> I feel like people who resonate with me will call me for my services, and those who don&#8217;t won&#8217;t.  And I&#8217;m cool either way.</p>
<p>The interesting thing about brand choices is that it&#8217;s rarely about good and bad; instead, it&#8217;s about <strong>For Me and Not For Me</strong>.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s not that I don&#8217;t like brand Nike.  After all, they have about the most amazing slogan and logo of all time.  I just live on Planet Reebok.  Reebok is For Me; Nike is Not For Me.</p>
<p><strong>In branding we call this Preference. </strong> We want our target market to prefer us to the alternatives.  To achieve that, they must believe we&#8217;re a better choice.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s how I help my clients understand the Alternatives to their business and how to build preference with their intended audiences:</p>
<p><strong>1.  Evaluate to Differentiate.</strong></p>
<p>The entire point of branding is to identify how you&#8217;re unique. <strong> That&#8217;s why you must study the alternatives&#8217; value <em>and </em>yours enough to understand the differences. </strong> Phrase these differences as meaningful outcomes for your clients.</p>
<p>We provide women business owners with information that empowers them to make wise investment decisions.&#8221;  Differentiated outcomes here promise copious information, solutions tailored to the needs of businesswomen and independence in decision-making.</p>
<p><strong>2.  Think expansively about alternatives.</strong></p>
<p>I heard organizing expert Barbara Hemphill on a call once say <strong>her &#8220;main competition is apathy and resignation.&#8221;</strong> I always ask my clients to position their brands against the alternatives of &#8220;doing nothing&#8221; and &#8220;doing it myself.&#8221;</p>
<p>Think about it this way: if you don&#8217;t get the business, what happens instead?  <strong>That&#8217;s your real competition.</strong></p>
<p><strong>3.  Respect the Differences.</strong></p>
<p>It&#8217;s rarely effective to elevate your brand by cutting down the alternatives.  Instead, try to understand <strong>who might choose NOT to work with you and why.</strong></p>
<p>&#8220;For whom would doing nothing be a perfectly good option?&#8221; I ask my clients.  Well, people who aren&#8217;t really bothered by their current situation. When they need a change, they&#8217;ll take action.</p>
<p>&#8220;For whom might doing it themselves be a perfectly good option?&#8221;  Probably someone who doesn&#8217;t have the budget to hire help.  Also, someone who prioritizes personal accomplishment over expert advice.</p>
<p>Rather than denigrating the poor quality of a low-priced alternative, well-known hair care products advertised, &#8220;it&#8217;s expensive because I&#8217;m worth it.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>How can you highlight your advantages without trashing the competition?</strong></p>
<p><strong>4.  Support your claims.</strong></p>
<p>When anyone can claim any differentiator, it&#8217;s always more effective to <strong>provide some evidence.</strong>Testimonials, case studies and market research all provide evidence that what you&#8217;re saying is true.  Removing just a little risk from your prospect who&#8217;s deciding whether to choose your brand always helps to <strong>turn preference into purchase.</strong></p>
<p>In this way, we can perform a &#8220;Competitive Assessment&#8221; without negativity.  We ensure the clients who&#8217;d call you For Me will beat a path to your door, and the rest can enjoy other alternatives. <strong> </strong></span></div>
<div><span style="font-family: Verdana;"><strong> </strong></span></div>
<div><span style="font-family: Verdana;"><strong>It&#8217;s win-win-win all around.</strong></span></div>
<div><span style="font-family: Verdana;"><br />
<strong> </strong></p>
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<p><span style="font-size: x-small;"> &#8220;By Samantha Hartley of Enlightened Marketing. For effective marketing strategies that align with your values visit <a href="http://www.enlightenedmarketing.com/" target="_blank">http://www.enlightenedmarketing.com/</a>.&#8221; </span></p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 13 May 2010 18:22:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michele</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Abundance Check Ritual

This ritual has been handed down through so many people that its origin has become unknown. I received this from my One Command group and thought some of you might enjoy giving it a try.  It can&#8217;t hurt, right?
What are Abundance Checks?
Abundance checks are a tool we can use to create more abundance [...]]]></description>
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<p><img src="http://www.infinitelight.citymaker.com/l/images/32137317.jpg" alt="" hspace="10" vspace="5" align="right" /></p>
<div>This ritual has been handed down through so many people that its origin has become unknown. I received this from my One Command group and thought some of you might enjoy giving it a try.  It can&#8217;t hurt, right?</div>
<div>What are <strong>Abundance Checks</strong>?<br />
Abundance checks are a tool we can use to <strong>create more abundance</strong> in our lives. They are <strong>written within 24 hours after a New Moon</strong>.</div>
<div>Surprisingly, <strong>you really don&#8217;t even need to believe</strong> that the check will work when you write it. You will however be amazed at the results, as you will see increased abundance in your life, in some life area. It is <strong>not always financial, but certainly in an area that you need</strong>.  There is a traditional manner, which has been handed down, that must be followed. If you do not have a checking account you can draw a check on a piece of paper and fill it out the same way &#8211; the results will be the same, more abundance for you.</div>
<div><strong>Here&#8217;s how:</strong><br />
1.  Within 24 hours after a New Moon, take a check from your check book. Where it says &#8220;Pay to,&#8221; write your name.<br />
2.  In the little box on the same line where you would fill in a dollar amount write &#8220;Paid in full.&#8221;<br />
3.  On the line underneath your name, where you would write out a dollar amount, write &#8220;Paid in full.&#8221; [I find it works better if you don't add the squiggly line.]<br />
4.  Sign the check: &#8220;The Law of Abundance&#8221;</div>
<div>Do not put a date on the check. Do not write a specific dollar amount in the check. Put it in a safe place and forget about it. The Universe will take it from there.</div>
<div>Many people are skeptical about trying this until they do it. After the first time they realize the power of these checks and do them routinely every month! Try it yourself and see!  <strong>If you enjoy this ritual, do it for the next three New Moons and see what happens.</strong></div>
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		<title>Procrastination</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 11 May 2010 06:42:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michele</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are you a procrastinator?  I know sometimes I can be one.   Some days it&#8217;s hard to get motivated, even when I have a lot to do.  This is something I&#8217;ve been working on for a long time and I definitely feel like it helps to have a plan to keep me on track.
So, what causes [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.lodestoneblog.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/procrastination.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-663" title="procrastination" src="http://www.lodestoneblog.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/procrastination.jpg" alt="Procrastination" width="252" height="396" /></a>Are you a procrastinator?  I know sometimes I can be one.   Some days it&#8217;s hard to get motivated, even when I have a lot to do.  This is something I&#8217;ve been working on for a long time and I definitely feel like it helps to have a plan to keep me on track.</p>
<p>So, what causes procrastination?  We get into that rut when we over-think what we need to do instead of just getting to it.  The over-thinking is often caused by a fear of failure or not allowing enough time either because they waited until the last minute or because they haven&#8217;t thought through how much time it will actually take.  It can also happen when we &#8220;don&#8217;t feel like we are in the right mood&#8221;.</p>
<p>The bottom line is this&#8230;whatever the reason, it can hold you back in both your personal and professional life.  So, what can you do to move through it?  Keep your eye on the prize is one way to get through it.  What are your goals?  How are you going to accomplish them?  If you think of something else that you need to do, jot it down so you can free your mind to stay focused on the task at hand.  If you find something is promising to pull you away from what you are doing, ask yourself if it will help you accomplish your goals today.</p>
<p>And remember, the longer you wait, just like the cartoon says, the longer it takes to finish.  Dive it now and &#8220;get &#8216;er done&#8221;!</p>
<p>Any tips you can share on how you stay focused on and accomplish your goals?  Post them here.</p>
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		<title>Why Freebies CAN Cost You by A. Michelle Blakeley</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 04 May 2010 16:19:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michele</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have spoken at a few of our Lodestone Business Development Groups about giving services away for free.  IMHO, it&#8217;s important to be clear with yourself about why you are doing it.  Is it in exchange for rent or another service or product?  Is it part of your marketing plan?  Is it part of your [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have spoken at a few of our Lodestone Business Development Groups about giving services away for free.  IMHO, it&#8217;s important to be clear with yourself about why you are doing it.  Is it in exchange for rent or another service or product?  Is it part of your marketing plan?  Is it part of your community service?  In all of these situations,it&#8217;s important to have clearly defined boundaries about what you are willing to do, when you&#8217;ll do it, for whom you&#8217;ll do it and why you are doing it.   If your desire is to be able to pay your bills with your job, you have to have money coming in to do that.  In order to attract people who are willing and able to pay for your services, you need to know that there is a value to your services and conduct business accordingly.</p>
<p>One thing I do suggest highly is having some sort of free offer available to others to give them a taste of what you do and who you are.  This is a part of your marketing plan and well worth it to provide for people.  I love giving something away to those I connect with.  If you want to learn more about this, contact me at michele@lodestonedynamics.com or visit us at one of our upcoming Lodestone Group meetings.  In the meantime, check out this article I found talking about the very subject of giving away products and services.  Very timely!</p>
<p>Recently, Ning announced that they were laying off 70 staff and no longer going to provide their social networking platform as a freebie. Ning’s COO Jason Rosenthal said they would stop offering free services, forcing networks to either pay or move (<a href="http://ow.ly/1BNke" target="_blank">http://ow.ly/1BNke</a>). Although it is not unusual for us to hear about the need to downsize and tighten belts, it is unusual to hear about such a large social networking venue to suddenly charge you for what you become accustomed to and enjoyed having as a freebie.</p>
<p>Just what is the cost of providing services and products as freebies? First of all, just because you offer something for free doesn’t mean people will want it. Offering products and services at no cost can be tricky. Giving away products and services that you promote as “valuable” actually decreases in value the more you do it. Although one man’s junk is another man’s treasure, what’s the value in something that you can get anytime you want? Just how long can your business survive when you are giving away everything with everything?</p>
<p>How much is too much? What happens when you can no longer afford to give away your products and services? What do you do? Do you grandfather your existing clients with the freebies and only charge new clients? Do you abruptly stop providing the freebies and only provide the products and services that cost?</p>
<p>Providing sessions, teleclasses, products, books, etc. as freebies are all great ways to get your foot in the door but when it is done in excess and/or over time there are risks. Those risks could cost you more in the long run. The last thing you want clients and potential clients to feel is like they’ve just experienced the “bait and switch.”</p>
<p>3 ways to avoid the costly mistake of providing products and services for free:</p>
<p>1. Have a time limit. This will help let clients and potential clients know that it is only for a set period of time and that they can anticipate having to pay for those said products and services in the future. Even if you use the term “for a limited time” or “limited supply” it gives the viewer notice. They should understand that it might not be available or expect a cost at some point in the future.</p>
<p>2. Attach the free product or service to the purchase of a product or service. Create a win-win scenario by offering a “bonus” item to the purchase of a product or service. You get a sale, but the client gets something extra of value without you giving away the kitchen sink.</p>
<p>3. Use the free product or service as a platform they can upgrade from. Keep the freebie a bare bones type of thing and keep the bells and whistles as something of value that they should expect to pay for. Many technology platforms use this type of technique as seen in “basic, premium and platinum memberships” etc.</p>
<p>One final note, if you utilize and incorporate a product or service into your business that does not have a cost attached to it, weigh the pros and cons carefully and know that should the bill come in the mail one day, you will gladly pay it because it is an integral part of your business functionality and success.</p>
<p>A.Michelle Blakeley is the Founder and CEO of Simplicity, Inc.; a progressive small business development firm. She manages her clients’ business expectations and prevents information overload via Micro Business Therapy™ and Micro Business Action Plans. She is featured in Forbes.com and the Financial Post as one of 30 Women Entrepreneurs to Follow on Twitter, the host of Simple Truths for Women Entrepreneurson BlogTalkRadio.com and author of the NEW e-book: “Get it Right and Move Along… a collection of practical tips, tools and techniques for small business owners.”</p>
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		<title>Planning Out Your Work</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Apr 2010 05:58:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michele</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of my biggest challenges in being self-employed has been managing my time.  While people always seem amazed at how much I get done, I know how I work and that I can get things done more efficiently.  The only thing I miss about having a full time job is having someone else holding me [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of my biggest challenges in being self-employed has been managing my time.  While people always seem amazed at how much I get done, I know how I work and that I can get things done more efficiently.  The only thing I miss about having a full time job is having someone else holding me accountable for getting things done (this can be a BIG help) and, ok, I also miss the conversations around the water cooler.</p>
<p>It is true that having someone else tell me when something needs to be complete and then checking in, can help when someone is as easily distracted as I can be.  I usually have several projects going on at a time.  Right now I actually have 29 (yes, you read that right) web pages open along with Photoshop, Outlook, Quicken, Word, oh and my printer needs ink and the reminder is up on my screen, AND last but not least, my Blackberry Desktop Manager program.   Perhaps that gives you a better understanding of my mind and how it works (yep, painful at times).</p>
<p>So you can imagine my delight when I received a newsletter from <a title="http://www.coachingtoys.com/" href="http://" target="_blank">Marcy at Coaching Toys/The Product Mentor </a>where she highlighted some <a title="http://www.productiveflourishing.com/free-planners/" href="http://" target="_blank">great planning tools</a> that are actually available at no charge!  I love this and I thought you might too.  I think my fav is the Productivity Jumpstarter so far.  Nice and easy to use!  Let me know what you think of these tools&#8230;</p>
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		<title>New Moon, April 14 12:29</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Apr 2010 18:21:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michele</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Abundance Check Ritual

This ritual has been handed down through so many people that its origin has become unknown. I received this from my One Command group and thought some of you might enjoy giving it a try.  It can&#8217;t hurt, right?
What are Abundance Checks?
Abundance checks are a tool we can use to create more abundance [...]]]></description>
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<div>This ritual has been handed down through so many people that its origin has become unknown. I received this from my One Command group and thought some of you might enjoy giving it a try.  It can&#8217;t hurt, right?</div>
<div>What are <strong>Abundance Checks</strong>?<br />
Abundance checks are a tool we can use to <strong>create more abundance</strong> in our lives. They are <strong>written within 24 hours after a New Moon</strong>.</div>
<div>Surprisingly, <strong>you really don&#8217;t even need to believe</strong> that the check will work when you write it. You will however be amazed at the results, as you will see increased abundance in your life, in some life area. It is <strong>not always financial, but certainly in an area that you need</strong>.  There is a traditional manner, which has been handed down, that must be followed. If you do not have a checking account you can draw a check on a piece of paper and fill it out the same way &#8211; the results will be the same, more abundance for you.</div>
<div><strong>Here&#8217;s how:</strong><br />
1.  Within 24 hours after a New Moon, take a check from your check book. Where it says &#8220;Pay to,&#8221; write your name.<br />
2.  In the little box on the same line where you would fill in a dollar amount write &#8220;Paid in full.&#8221;<br />
3.  On the line underneath your name, where you would write out a dollar amount, write &#8220;Paid in full.&#8221; [I find it works better if you don't add the squiggly line.]<br />
4.  Sign the check: &#8220;The Law of Abundance&#8221;</div>
<div>Do not put a date on the check. Do not write a specific dollar amount in the check. Put it in a safe place and forget about it. The Universe will take it from there.</div>
<div>Many people are skeptical about trying this until they do it. After the first time they realize the power of these checks and do them routinely every month! Try it yourself and see!  <strong>If you enjoy this ritual, do it for the next three New Moons and see what happens.</strong></div>
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		<title>New Moon, March 15th 21:01</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Mar 2010 18:21:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michele</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Abundance Check Ritual

This ritual has been handed down through so many people that its origin has become unknown. I received this from my One Command group and thought some of you might enjoy giving it a try.  It can&#8217;t hurt, right?
What are Abundance Checks?
Abundance checks are a tool we can use to create more abundance [...]]]></description>
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<div>This ritual has been handed down through so many people that its origin has become unknown. I received this from my One Command group and thought some of you might enjoy giving it a try.  It can&#8217;t hurt, right?</div>
<div>What are <strong>Abundance Checks</strong>?<br />
Abundance checks are a tool we can use to <strong>create more abundance</strong> in our lives. They are <strong>written within 24 hours after a New Moon</strong>.</div>
<div>Surprisingly, <strong>you really don&#8217;t even need to believe</strong> that the check will work when you write it. You will however be amazed at the results, as you will see increased abundance in your life, in some life area. It is <strong>not always financial, but certainly in an area that you need</strong>.  There is a traditional manner, which has been handed down, that must be followed. If you do not have a checking account you can draw a check on a piece of paper and fill it out the same way &#8211; the results will be the same, more abundance for you.</div>
<div><strong>Here&#8217;s how:</strong><br />
1.  Within 24 hours after a New Moon, take a check from your check book. Where it says &#8220;Pay to,&#8221; write your name.<br />
2.  In the little box on the same line where you would fill in a dollar amount write &#8220;Paid in full.&#8221;<br />
3.  On the line underneath your name, where you would write out a dollar amount, write &#8220;Paid in full.&#8221; [I find it works better if you don't add the squiggly line.]<br />
4.  Sign the check: &#8220;The Law of Abundance&#8221;</div>
<div>Do not put a date on the check. Do not write a specific dollar amount in the check. Put it in a safe place and forget about it. The Universe will take it from there.</div>
<div>Many people are skeptical about trying this until they do it. After the first time they realize the power of these checks and do them routinely every month! Try it yourself and see!  <strong>If you enjoy this ritual, do it for the next three New Moons and see what happens.</strong></div>
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		<title>New Moon February 14th 2:51</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Feb 2010 18:19:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michele</dc:creator>
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Abundance Check Ritual
 

This ritual has been handed down through so many people that its origin has become unknown. I received this from my One Command group and thought some of you might enjoy giving it a try.  It can&#8217;t hurt, right?

What are Abundance Checks?
Abundance checks are a tool we can use to create more [...]]]></description>
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<div style="font-family: arial; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: bold; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;">Abundance Check Ritual</div>
<p></strong> <img src="http://www.infinitelight.citymaker.com/l/images/32137317.jpg" alt="" hspace="10" vspace="5" align="right" /></p>
<div>
This ritual has been handed down through so many people that its origin has become unknown. I received this from my One Command group and thought some of you might enjoy giving it a try.  It can&#8217;t hurt, right?</div>
<div>
What are <strong>Abundance Checks</strong>?<br />
Abundance checks are a tool we can use to <strong>create more abundance</strong> in our lives. They are <strong>written within 24 hours after a New Moon</strong>.</div>
<div>
Surprisingly, <strong>you really don&#8217;t even need to believe</strong> that the check will work when you write it. You will however be amazed at the results, as you will see increased abundance in your life, in some life area. It is <strong>not always financial, but certainly in an area that you need</strong>.  There is a traditional manner, which has been handed down, that must be followed. If you do not have a checking account you can draw a check on a piece of paper and fill it out the same way &#8211; the results will be the same, more abundance for you.</div>
<div>
<strong>Here&#8217;s how:</strong><br />
1.  Within 24 hours after a New Moon, take a check from your check book. Where it says &#8220;Pay to,&#8221; write your name.<br />
2.  In the little box on the same line where you would fill in a dollar amount write &#8220;Paid in full.&#8221;<br />
3.  On the line underneath your name, where you would write out a dollar amount, write &#8220;Paid in full.&#8221; [I find it works better if you don't add the squiggly line.]<br />
4.  Sign the check: &#8220;The Law of Abundance&#8221;</div>
<div>Do not put a date on the check. Do not write a specific dollar amount in the check. Put it in a safe place and forget about it. The Universe will take it from there.</div>
<div>
Many people are skeptical about trying this until they do it. After the first time they realize the power of these checks and do them routinely every month! Try it yourself and see!  <strong>If you enjoy this ritual, do it for the next three New Moons and see what happens.</strong></div>
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		<title>It&#8217;s Sunday!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Jan 2010 19:23:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michele</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Isn&#8217;t Sunday supposed to be a day of rest?  LOL I guess when I am my own boss, I can&#8217;t complain about doing a little work today.  After all, it is my choice and I do love what I do.  I noticed the sun is shining brightly and hope to go into town a little [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Isn&#8217;t Sunday supposed to be a day of rest?  LOL I guess when I am my own boss, I can&#8217;t complain about doing a little work today.  After all, it is my choice and I do love what I do.  I noticed the sun is shining brightly and hope to go into town a little later to get my car washed.  It is in dire need!</p>
<p>I shared a little bit on Facebook last night about how I got lost in the middle of nowhere heading home after a class in WI.  It was late, it was dark and I was tired.  It was all I could do to stay focused on the prize of getting home instead of losing it.  Before I went to the class, I had a nudge to print the directions on Mapquest in reverse&#8230;a nudge I obviously ignored.  I thought I&#8217;ll be fine, I&#8217;m used to following directions, I can figure it out to get back home.</p>
<p>Well, most of the time that&#8217;s true.  I&#8217;m pretty well versed on the art of following directions but every once in a while, I need that extra help and guidance and this was definitely one of those times.  You&#8217;ll be happy to know that I did make it home, in one piece and not too crabby.  I found a nice man at a gas station who gave me directions to get back to the highway (side note:  how come gas station attendants never seem to know where they are??).  Lastly, don&#8217;t give up.  I was so frustrated and was on the verge of losing it when that man appeared and gave me exactly what I needed.  Most businesses give up, right before the turning point would have happened where they can experience the success they desire.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t give up on your dream!</p>
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		<title>Connections</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Jan 2010 05:15:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michele</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I spent Thursday at a great Conference offered by WIN (Women in Networking).  This was my first experience with WIN and it was a great one.  I met several members who were so nice and welcoming and I had a blast interacting with them throughout the day.  The conference content was great too.  I attended [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I spent Thursday at a great Conference offered by WIN (Women in Networking).  This was my first experience with WIN and it was a great one.  I met several members who were so nice and welcoming and I had a blast interacting with them throughout the day.  The conference content was great too.  I attended three breakout sessions: one on marketing, one on increasing profits and one on networking.  All perfect for what I need in my business.  Sometimes it&#8217;s hard for me to attend these types of events because I am an introvert by nature.  I know how important it is to get out there so I can build relationships with others so I step out of my comfort zone and do these kinds of things alone.  I occasionally will sign up with a friend and I love being able to experience something new with them and yet, for my best interests, it&#8217;s great to go alone and meet new people rather than having a tendency to stay in that safe zone with a familiar face.</p>
<p>How do you network?  What organizations are you a part of that you enjoy?  I&#8217;d love to hear about them.</p>
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		<title>Taking a Risk Today and Living &#8220;As If&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Dec 2009 02:53:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michele</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[To most I hide it well.  People don&#8217;t know that I don&#8217;t really like to be seen.  Often, I&#8217;m not even aware of my choices myself and how they keep me hidden away from view.  Safe and content, not in a position to be hurt by others.  When I have done well in various areas of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To most I hide it well.  People don&#8217;t know that I don&#8217;t really like to be seen.  Often, I&#8217;m not even aware of my choices myself and how they keep me hidden away from view.  Safe and content, not in a position to be hurt by others.  When I have done well in various areas of my life, I have lost relationships because they didn&#8217;t like it.  I know for some that might be hard to imagine but I guess I haven&#8217;t always made the best choices in friends.  And really, can we call those kind of relationships &#8220;friendships&#8221;?  I don&#8217;t think so.  Consciously, I&#8217;m aware of this and consciously, I still hear those nasty words from my upbringing about not doing things well enough, not working hard enough, not being good enough which reinforce what I have experienced from so-called friends. </p>
<p>In some ways it seems odd to me that someone would leave me, abandon me, because I&#8217;m doing well or get a great opportunity in my life but jealousy is a powerful thing.  Unhappiness is a powerful thing.  I&#8217;ve made choices myself from these places that I would not have otherwise made.  So I guess what I&#8217;m trying to say is that I understand.  Understand, yes, but it doesn&#8217;t make it easier to have people leave.  It has unfortunately created the belief &#8220;If I&#8217;m too successful, I will be alone.  Everyone will leave me.  They always do.&#8221;  Not a belief I choose to continue to have.</p>
<p>So here I am today.  I&#8217;ve done healing work around this belief and now it&#8217;s time to bring in the &#8220;act as if&#8221; as I call it.  This is the piece that I often think is missing in the healing journey for people.  We heal some aspect of our being but continue to live as if we are still a victim, still carry a belief, still don&#8217;t feel worthy.  What would happen if we acted as if we were no longer a victim, no longer carried that negative belief, felt worthy beyond imagination?   What would be possible??  Or perhaps an easier question&#8230;what wouldn&#8217;t be possible?  The answer?  Nothing.   Everything would be possible!</p>
<p>So back to today, the first of many risks I hope.  The first of many acting as if it safe to be seen, acting as if it&#8217;s ok to take advantage of opportunities that come into my life, acting as if everyone who cares about me will be happy for me.  Today, I had the opportunity to be a part of the production of an upcoming commercial due to air in January for Minnesota School of Business and Globe University and I jumped on the chance.  I spent the morning down in their production studio behind big, hot lights talking about the things I really enjoy about school.  It was so much fun!  I was hardly aware of all the lights and cameras as I shared from my heart what I love most.  Deep in the back of my mind, I knew I was doing something that would become a part of something bigger soon.  A commercial to air on TV beyond the boundaries of my home, of Elk River, of even Minnesota.  How&#8217;s that for choosing to be seen today?!</p>
<p>We are all supposed to get a copy when the piece is edited and I will definitely share with everyone.  I&#8217;m done hiding.  I&#8217;m ready to live as if I love to be seen, love to be in the limelight and I&#8217;m not worried about what relationship will come to an end because of it.  Wish me luck&#8230;and join me if you like.  How would you live today if you are living as if you are not a victim, your life is not filled with drama, you are worthy, you do enough because you are enough or whatever other poison thought have slowly crept into your psyche over the years?  What thought or belief are you willing to give up so you can live your best life possible starting now?</p>
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		<title>Mashable Rocks!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Nov 2009 04:57:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michele</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Recently Mashable shared these great videos for small businesses owners and I couldn&#8217;t resist sharing them with you.  Great lessons!
http://mashable.com/2009/11/14/small-business-video/
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Recently <a title="Mashable" href="http://www.mashable.com" target="_blank">Mashable</a> shared these great videos for small businesses owners and I couldn&#8217;t resist sharing them with you.  Great lessons!</p>
<p><a href="http://mashable.com/2009/11/14/small-business-video/">http://mashable.com/2009/11/14/small-business-video/</a></p>
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		<title>Inside or Out?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 16:08:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michele</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A few days ago my daughter was watching something on TV.  When it was over, she left the room but didn&#8217;t turn off the TV.  I wasn&#8217;t really paying attention as I was deep into whatever I was working on at the time.  After a while I happened to notice that Spongebob was on.  Years [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A few days ago my daughter was watching something on TV.  When it was over, she left the room but didn&#8217;t turn off the TV.  I wasn&#8217;t really paying attention as I was deep into whatever I was working on at the time.  After a while I happened to notice that Spongebob was on.  Years ago I used to occasionally watch this with my daughter but hadn&#8217;t seen it in years so forgive me if I get my characters wrong.</p>
<p>In this episode, Plankton was trying to get Spongebob to make Crabby Patties for him.  Where I took notice was when Spongebob was explaining that the environment didn&#8217;t feel right for him to cook.  He told Plankton that he was used to cooking on a certain kind of stove so Plankton got him the stove.  Spongebob was so excited but found that he still couldn&#8217;t cook the Crabby Patties.  He told Plankton that he was used to cooking in a certain area of the room so Plankton offered to move the stove for him.  This little guy began to push the big stove around the room, following Spongebob&#8217;s lead and direction.  He ended up right back where he started, but much more sweaty and out of breath.</p>
<p>I went back to what I was working on but a little while later, I looked up at the TV and saw that Plankton had re-created the exact kitchen that Spongebob was used to cooking in and yet, still Spongebob couldn&#8217;t seem to cook the Crabby Patties.</p>
<p>How often in life do you find yourself looking outside for the answers?  How often do you find yourself saying &#8220;if only&#8230;.&#8221;?  How many times do you feel like the conditions are not quite right &#8211; that something is off?</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know what happened in the rest of the episode of Spongebob but what I do know is he really didn&#8217;t want to cook those Crabby Patties and he was looking for reasons outside of himself as to why &#8211; things for Plankton to &#8220;fix&#8221;.  The beauty is, he had the answers inside all along.</p>
<p>Much like Spongebob, you have all the answers you need inside.  If you spend all your time searching outside for them, you will NEVER find them.  Spend some time today going within.  Close your eyes, take a few deep breaths, and ask what is it you need to know today.  Then take action.</p>
<p>Let me know what comes up for you&#8230;</p>
<p>Make it a wonderful day!</p>
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		<title>Marketing Tip &#8211; Consistency is the Key</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2009 14:59:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michele</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If I was only able to share one thing about marketing, this would be it.
In all of my research, education and experience, it boils down to this.   Customers love consistency.  They need it.  We often think they like change such as flyers that look new and fresh each time.  The truth is &#8211; they don’t.  [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If I was only able to share one thing about marketing, this would be it.</p>
<p>In all of my research, education and experience, it boils down to this.   Customers love consistency.  They need it.  We often think they like change such as flyers that look new and fresh each time.  The truth is &#8211; they don’t.  Think about major companies like Northwest and Delta who merge.  These two companies took months to make the transition and Northwest just recently took the Delta name and logo.  They let their customers know for months that they would be making changes long before they actually made them.  If they hadn’t, they ran the risk of losing many customers.</p>
<p>It doesn&#8217;t matter what field you are in, customers don’t like change and any change must be implemented gradually to be effective.  Having the same look to your brochures, flyers,  website, etc.  creates branding and customers begin to identify with that brand.  Even a color change can cause confusion.</p>
<p>When you develop your marketing plan,  come up with a look you are comfortable sticking with.  Include design elements such as where your logo shows up and the colors that you use  every time in everything you print.  One of the things I did when I worked at Elk River Parks and Recreation was have templates created so all flyers were consistent in their appearance.  I highly recommend this, not just for marketing, but also because it saves time in the creation process and fewer details are overlooked.  To be honest, it&#8217;s one thing I haven&#8217;t done in my current business that I will be implementing here soon.   I&#8217;m not sure why I haven&#8217;t because I know how much easier it makes everything.</p>
<p>Additionally, take a look at the next several months or even the next year.  What advertising opportunities do you have that you can always do?  Do you have a calendar of events on your website that you keep current?  Do you take out an ad, not once in a while, but on a regular basis in the local paper?  Do you send out a newsletter regularly?  Whatever you include in your marketing plan, include it without fail.  People will come to expect it and watch for it.  Partnered with consistent looking materials, they will begin to recognize your brand and take notice every time they see you somewhere.  Over time, you’ll be able to watch your numbers improve in all your opportunities.</p>
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		<title>Defining Wealth</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Aug 2009 21:21:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michele</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Encarta defines wealth as &#8220;an abundance or great quantity of something&#8221;.
Many of us automatically jump to the thought of money when we hear the word wealth.  I know I do. Or at least I did.  When my friend, Cathy, and I decided to co-facilitate a Commanding Wealth Circle I struggled with the name because I [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Encarta defines wealth as &#8220;an abundance or great quantity of something&#8221;.</p>
<p>Many of us automatically jump to the thought of money when we hear the word wealth.  I know I do. Or at least I did.  When my friend, Cathy, and I decided to co-facilitate a Commanding Wealth Circle I struggled with the name because I didn&#8217;t want people to think it was all about money.  Yes, money is a part of it.  We need it to live and enjoy some of life&#8217;s pleasures (although many pleasures are free).  I actually pulled out the dictionary as I was creating flyers for the group.  That&#8217;s when I saw how expansive the word &#8220;wealth&#8221; can be.  It&#8217;s just how we choose to define it for ourselves.</p>
<p>I am reminded of a story I heard once about a &#8220;wealthy&#8221; man and his son.  The man wanted to teach his son how lucky he was and thought he could do this by showing the son how poor people live.  They went to the country and spent some time on a farm with a family that would be considered quite poor.</p>
<p>At the end of the trip, the father asked his son what he thought.  The son had a great time and told his father that what he learned was this:</p>
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<li>They have one dog and the family had four.</li>
<li>They have a pool and the family has a creek that goes on forever.</li>
<li>They have lanterns in their garden and the family has stars in the sky.</li>
<li>They have a piece of land and the family has fields that go farther than the eye can see.</li>
<li>They buy their food and the family grows their own.</li>
<li>They have walls to protect them and the family has friends.</li>
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<p>The son then said to his father, &#8220;Thank you for showing me how poor we are.&#8221;</p>
<p>It&#8217;s all perspective.  Everything in life is that way.  We get to choose how we want to define everything in our world.  It&#8217;s both a blessing and curse &#8211; depending on your perspective.  Which will you choose?</p>
<p><em>For more information on the Commanding Wealth Circles, visit <a title="Lodestone Dynamics Events" href="http://www.lodestonedynamics.com/eventreg.html" target="_blank">our website</a>.</em></p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Aug 2009 20:11:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michele</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A while back during one of our Virtual Lodestone Networking meeting I shared some of my favorite tips and tricks of social media.  I love sharing the things I come across that make my life easier so I thought I&#8217;d share just a couple here.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A while back during one of our Virtual Lodestone Networking meeting I shared some of my favorite tips and tricks of social media.  I love sharing the things I come across that make my life easier so I thought I&#8217;d share just a couple here.</p>
<p>If you Twitter, think about using Hootsuite.com, a free site that allows you (among other things) to schedule out your tweets.  This makes it a lot easier to be consistent &#8211; a very important piece of effective social media.  They just upgraded it and it has several new features.</p>
<p>Also, on Facebook there is a great Twitter application.  When you install the application.  It allows you to Tweet right from Facebook AND when you Tweet from anywhere, your Tweets show up on Facebook as a status update. But if you want to be able to be selective, try the Selective Twitter app.  This will only publish the tweets with #fb at the end of them.  This is a great way to manage your social media more effectively.</p>
<p>Most experts in social media will tell you to pick one platform and stick with it until you get really good.  Then add another if you choose.  These two tips will allow you to do both Facebook and Twitter without much extra work.  Let me know how it goes&#8230;</p>
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		<title>The 80/20 Rule</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2009 15:36:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michele</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;Let the 80/20 Principle Pay Off for You&#8221;
by Ali Brown
It pays to play to your strengths. But how do you pinpoint the areas that will increase revenue and earn you more money? Simple: by following the Pareto Principle. Developed by Italian economist and sociologist Vilfredo Pareto, this short, simple rule states that 80% of our [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Let the 80/20 Principle Pay Off for You&#8221;<br />
by Ali Brown</p>
<p>It pays to play to your strengths. But how do you pinpoint the areas that will increase revenue and earn you more money? Simple: by following the Pareto Principle. Developed by Italian economist and sociologist Vilfredo Pareto, this short, simple rule states that 80% of our results come from 20% of our activity.</p>
<p>You may have heard that we wear 20% off of our clothes 80% of the time, and the same 80/20 rule applies to business. For instance, 80% of your sales come from 20% of your customers. Conversely, 80% of your complaints come from 20% of your customers and 80% of the profits made in your industry come from 20% of the companies. The exact percentages may vary, perhaps 75% and 25% instead of 80% and 20%, but the concept remains the same.</p>
<p>By identifying customers and areas that are most valuable to you and your business, you can boost your bottom line without working longer or harder. In fact, you&#8217;ll be working smarter. At the same time as you&#8217;re finding your most profitable areas, you also need to think about those customers or products that are not performing well and may actually be dragging down you and your business.</p>
<p>For instance, if you own a secondhand music store, you probably have some inventory that is flying off the shelves and other products that just aren&#8217;t selling, no matter how low you price them. By dividing your products in categories (perhaps by music genre), you could see which items your customers are buying and which ones you should stop carrying. By matching your products to customer demand, you&#8217;ll be able to turn over inventory more quickly and make more money, all without adding more square footage or spending more money on advertising.</p>
<p>Here are some areas to consider in your own business:</p>
<p>*Employees &#8211; Who is your rock star salesperson and what you can you do to help them achieve even better results? Also, who is underperforming and might they be better suited to other tasks? Both are important considerations.</p>
<p>*Customers Calculate how much revenue you&#8217;re getting from each customer and subtract the cost of administrative time or other costs to maintain that relationship. Once you&#8217;ve figured out which customers are in your top 20%, you can make some strategic decisions about how to better meet their needs.</p>
<p>*Markets &#8211; If you sell products to different markets, evaluate these markets with the same principle you used for evaluating your customers. The markets that are earning you the most money should become obvious, so you can start examining the direction in which the company is headed.</p>
<p>Once you&#8217;ve identified areas that aren&#8217;t paying off, you have to be ruthless and kick them to the curb. Your business cannot flourish if you&#8217;re spending valuable time and resources on customers or products that are unprofitable. Once you make the strategic decision to cull wasted space and focus on areas that earn more money, you&#8217;ll have a much better chance of surviving, and even flourishing, in a competitive business environment.</p>
<p>© 2009 Ali International, LLC</p>
<p>Self-made multimillionaire entrepreneur Ali Brown is devoted to creating financial freedom for women globally through the power of entrepreneurship. To learn how to create wealth and live an extraordinary life now, register for her free weekly articles at www.AliBrown.com</p>
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		<title>Message from the Universe</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Jul 2009 01:31:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michele</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s always better to give too much, pay too much, and love too much, than not enough.
But then, Michele, since everything comes back to you anyway, can there ever be too much?
I love you too much anyway,
The Universe
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s always better to give too much, pay too much, and love too much, than not enough.</p>
<p>But then, Michele, since everything comes back to you anyway, can there ever be too much?</p>
<p>I love you too much anyway,<br />
The Universe</p>
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		<title>Slacking</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Jul 2009 01:29:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michele</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So, things have been crazy lately and I haven&#8217;t blogged much lately.  I&#8217;m feeling a little guilty about it.  It was something I had committed to and yet here we are again &#8211; not following through.  My intentions are all good and then life happens and I get off track.  For those who know me, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So, things have been crazy lately and I haven&#8217;t blogged much lately.  I&#8217;m feeling a little guilty about it.  It was something I had committed to and yet here we are again &#8211; not following through.  My intentions are all good and then life happens and I get off track.  For those who know me, getting off track is pretty easy.  Thoughts and ideas overflow from my head 24/7.</p>
<p>I used to think I wanted to shut it off until someone asked me one day during a healing session if that&#8217;s what I really wanted.  It only took a second for me to realize I didn&#8217;t.  I LOVE all the ideas that come to me.  I LOVE learning.  I LOVE it all!  I&#8217;m so grateful she asked me that or I may have spent the rest of my life trying to shut it off.</p>
<p>So, where am I at today?  Where am I not would probably be a quicker answer but I&#8217;ll give you just the highlights and try to keep it short.</p>
<p>Tomorrow I start school.  I can&#8217;t wait.  Every couple of hours here at home today I pop my head around the corner and asking my family if they know what tomorrow is.  They say no or Monday and then I say, &#8220;It&#8217;s a school day!&#8221;  Can you tell how excited I am?!  First on my agenda?  Learning all about color theory.  Well, second.  First I tested out of one of my classes because I felt I knew most of what the class would cover.  They said I was the first one to try testing out of this class and pass!  Yeah me!</p>
<p>Many of you know I spent 15 years in parks and rec.  I left in part because I really wanted to be able to offer programs and services that I am passionate about.  Not ones that someone else told me I had to offer.  Now I&#8217;m doing that.  The other thing I loved doing for parks and rec was marketing and graphic design.  That&#8217;s what I&#8217;m going back to school for!  I know I have some skills and I could gain more on the internet or in an occasional class here or there but I really want structure &#8211; the most missed component of having a 9 to 5 job.   It&#8217;s great to be able to work in my pjs on the couch and to decide when to schedule things and I still crave some structure.</p>
<p>It will also create a network of people who are passionate about the same thing for me.  I have this for the other aspects of who I am but not so much for people who love designing.  I am also really excited to be the student here and connect with other students too!</p>
<p>The theme here?  I saw that I wanted/needed something and I figured out how to make it happen and I did it!</p>
<p>What is it that you want?</p>
<p>What are you willing to do to make it happen?</p>
<p>When you see a roadblock/obstacle, what do you do?  Do you give up or find a way to go around it?</p>
<p>I&#8217;d love to hear from you&#8230;please leave a comment!</p>
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